First, the sad day wasn't ours.
When I was TTC I was a member on the What To Expect forums. I met a friend there named Lindsay, and she and I were both from Virginia, and pretty much in the same time line for appointments etc.
We went on and stopped fertility treatments to adopt. Lindsay and her husband did a cycle of injections and an IUI, and they conceived twin boys. So very very sadly, just a month from her deliver date, with all of the plans made, Lindsay was in a terrible car accident! She has many broken bones, but is on the mend physically. Sadly, one of her prematurely delivered twin boys did not survive. I am just so sick over this and completely heartbroken for she and her family. I can't even imagine how she feels and my eyes well up with tears every time I think of her situation. Please keep her family and her baby that is still trying to thrive in your thoughts.